Cookson Hills: A Special Place to Serve as a Houseparent

Since 1957, Cookson Hills has been a safe haven for children in need of love, stability, and guidance. Nestled in the rolling hills of Northeast Oklahoma, this Christ-centered ministry provides a nurturing home, a quality private Christian education, and therapeutic support for kids ages 5-17. For nearly 70 years, Cookson Hills has been helping children write a better story for their lives—and houseparents are at the heart of that mission.

Why Cookson Hills Stands Out

Cookson Hills isn’t just another residential home. It has been recognized as a Best Christian Workplace for its strong, Christ-honoring culture and its commitment to caring not only for children, but also for staff and families who serve there. Houseparents live in ministry-provided homes, with all housing, utilities, and food covered, alongside a competitive salary and benefits. Staff also receive ongoing trauma-informed training, paid time off, and even sabbatical opportunities—a testament to the organization’s commitment to sustainable caregiving.

This environment allows houseparents to flourish, not just as caregivers, but as whole families serving together in a supportive, faith-driven community.

The Calling of a Houseparent

Becoming a houseparent at Cookson Hills is more than a job—it’s a calling. Couples provide daily structure, care, and guidance for children who have experienced instability, neglect, or loss. That means everything from helping with homework and preparing meals to leading family devotions and teaching life skills like money management and emotional regulation.

In this role, couples work hand-in-hand with teachers, therapists, and case managers, ensuring that every child receives holistic support. Houseparents serve as steady role models, demonstrating unconditional love and modeling Christ-like values in everyday life.

“My houseparents, the Tinklers, had the biggest impact [on my time at Cookson Hills]. They brought me to my faith and raised me as their own. Mr. Tinkler is my biggest hero. He taught me how to control my emotions without bottling them up and to be empathetic.” – Jacob, former Cookson Hills student

Writing a Better Story—Together

At Cookson Hills, houseparents are more than caregivers; they are spiritual mentors, family to the fatherless, and builders of brighter futures. For couples who feel led to serve together, this is a place where faith and calling meet in powerful, life-changing ways.

If God is calling you and your spouse to open your hearts and home, consider joining the mission at Cookson Hills. Together, you can help children discover healing, hope, and a brighter tomorrow.

Learn more at cooksonhills.org/employment.